How to make a good erotic massage? Try it on your relationship!
Erotic massage perfectly helps to relax, and at the same time stimulates and sharpens the senses. Thanks to this, it is a perfect introduction to further games - but not only. What other benefits does it bring and how to do it?
Erotic massage - a good idea for the foreplay
Sensual erotic massage reduces stress and effectively helps to relax. It also improves blood circulation, making the skin more sensitive to stimuli. If you prepare well for it and commit to its implementation, you will not miss the reward. By acting step by step on various levels and attacking various senses, you will build such sexual tension that orgasm will be just a mere formality .
Start by getting in the right mood. The sharp, overhead light works great at the dentist's - it is unlikely to be advisable here. A small lamp that shines somewhere on the wall or ordinary tealights will be much better. Also think about music. Calm sounds in the background will help you forget some ideas about the hardships of the day and it will be easier for you to focus on yourself. So even the well-known Barry White will be better than Sum41, and recordings with sounds of nature, which are abundant in the Internet, will also provide an interesting effect. When choosing a source, however, make sure that the music is not interrupted every minute and a half by an advertisement of pyralgin in suppositories. For your intimacy, it will work the same as if your grandmother was knocking you in the room, offering you tea, cookies, shared lace and God knows what else ... The important thing to remember is the temperature. Lying still, it feels different, therefore it cannot be too low. It is known how cold affects guys - and when it comes to women,cold feet and excitement absolutely do not go hand in hand . It will also be good to prepare a packet of hygienic and wet wipes in advance, and to take care of an additional sheet. Have condoms close at hand - you never know how the situation unfolds ... Remember the basic principles of correct rubber band placement for this method of contraception to be effective.
WHICH ACCESSORIES TO CHOOSE FOR MASSAGE?
Let's start with candles. I don't know if you know, but there are special massage candles . At first glance, they do not differ from ordinary ones. When you light them, the intense fragrance that stimulates the senses will dissolve into the air. However, they differ from the standard ones in that the wax used in their production becomes liquid at a lower temperature. After dissolving it turns into a warm, aromatic oil that you can carefully apply on the body of the massaged person . Just don't try to do it with ordinary candles! Of course, it is worth choosing a fragrance that you both will like.
Another essential addition will be oils for erotic massage. Choosing an oil can be a real challenge. Apart from the more conventional ones, which "only" smell great, you can also come across edible oils. They have all the advantages of the previous ones, but they taste quite good. So you can kiss them without fear from your partner's body. The rate is complemented by all kinds of stimulating oils (cooling, warming), which thanks to the content of ethereal compounds additionally stimulate circulation, making the skin more sensitive not only to touch, but even to breath. IMPORTANT! Give up the use of oils if you or your partner are wearing latex underwear - fat will destroy it irretrievably. Latex clothes require proper care .
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In this situation, it is better to reach for massage gels . Manufactured on the basis of silicone or water, they will be safe for both latex underwear and condoms . Their common feature is that they can be used without any problems not only for massage, but also as a lubricant . There are also gels that enhance sensations and edible - the latter are especially helpful when one of the partners is not yet convinced of oral sex.
MEN'S EROTIC MASSAGE - IGNITE HIS BODY AND SENSES
There are many erotic massage techniques, but don't worry. All you need is your imagination - just use your ingenuity and watch his reactions carefully. Tell the guy to lie on his stomach, stretch his arms along his torso, and try to relax. Sit astride his buttocks, take an olive in your hand and pour a not-so-abundant line down his spine, from below towards his shoulder blades (thrill? What thrill ...?). Then, with circular movements from the spine to the shoulders, massage his neck, shoulders and back. You can stroke, you can oppress- he will like it anyway. If he's ticklish, you probably won't fail to take advantage of it. Work your way down gradually. However, remember not to put too much pressure on the spine, especially in the lumbar and cervical spine. It will be especially exciting for a guy to feel your breasts on his back. He won't last long and he wants to roll over onto his back. You can then continue to massage your breasts , trying to keep his hands away from them. Run over his torso and work his stomach downward. The rest is up to you: your penis, which is getting stiffer with every moment, is within reach of your mouth or hand. Alternatively, you can also put your breasts in front of his mouth - then his hands will tighten on your buttocks and now he will give you a solid massage ...
HOW TO MAKE A GOOD MASSAGE GIRLS, WIFES, LOVES?
Ask her to lie on her stomach and place her arms alongside her body - and try not to crush her into the bed. Don't even think you can pour the massage oil directly on her back! Put it on your hands and warm it up by rubbing one against the other. Only now are you ready to start the massage. Watch carefully her reactions to your touch (is she relaxed or tense?), Listen to her breath (deep and calm, or shallow and uneven?). Test for different forms of touch (whole hand, fingertips, knuckles) and different levels of pressure. If you are not sure about something - it is best to ask her directly. Avoid questions like "That's okay?" or "How should I massage you". Unless in 5 minutes the game you bet with your friends starts and you absolutely want to watch it ...
Sensitive places on the female body map include the back (it is not very revealing - usually whole), the neck, buttocks, thighs (especially their inner part) and places in the bends under the knees. So give them some attention and try to be creative. This is not Mortal Kombat on an old PC - pressing all the keys at once will not give you fatality and victory.
If she doesn't fall asleep in the meantime, she will roll over on her own. Then take care of her breasts (massage and knead them all - leave the nipples for now, these are not analogues on the Play pad), not forgetting the space between them and under the breasts. Abdominal compressions are undoubtedly a bad idea. Replace your hands with your mouth: you can kiss, nibble with your lips, run your tongue or irritate the skin with your breath (wet skin is especially sensitive to this). Focus on your neck and slowly move lower and lower. Now you can remember the nipples, but don't forget the place under the breasts. Continue your downward journey, listening carefully to the rhythm of her breathing. When you get close to the right place with your mouth, you can make a trick if you are brave enough. Pretend to come back "upstairs" again, after a while, draw an arc on her stomach and stop with your lips right in front of her pearl. Breathe as you exhale through your mouth and listen to her breathe. Don't let her wait too long and show her how strong your mouth is. If you do well - a quick 1-0 and a chance for a rematch ...
As you can see, erotic massage is nothing particularly complicated. After all, there are situations in which "ordinary" touch can take the form of "that touch" - and you will not finish watching the movie. There is no better way to learn about your own bodies and build closeness ... as long as you don't lie in bed with your nose on the phone.
